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Post by Fisi on Sept 19, 2009 13:43:53 GMT -5
No prob.
I wasminding my own buisness and all of a sudden some of mines and her friends came to me.They told me why did I lost her Ipod Nano and I say I didn't cause I was playing with my DS.Anyway then they told me that that another friend gave me the Nano and left. I was like so mad cause I didn't even grab her Ipod Nano.Now she tells her friends that I lost it and that I have to buy her one.
I've been framed and worst of all she still don't believe me only one of her friends does but no her.
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Post by Fatal hilarity on Sept 19, 2009 15:00:24 GMT -5
Some people just don't want to blame themselves... So now that post pointed directly at me has been deleted. I wish I knew what that means... I'm glad it's gone, though, because I hate making enemies, and it would've been a blemish on my reputation. I still kinda wish I knew what it was I was being accused of, but at this point I doubt I'll ever truly know. I guess some people just can't stand to hear strong differing opinions... I mean, even I cringe at people who say things I disagree with strongly. That's probably one reason I got heated with him. In the end, it wasn't so much what I said to him that I regret, but how I said it. I really should've been calmer with him. See, because of the way I was raised, if I see injustice, I fight it. In addition to the bullying I suffered as a young teenager for being different from everyone else, this makes me particularly intolerant of being insulted. Sometimes it makes my blood boil- I have anger issues, unfortunately. It also makes me wary of people who are different from me, because I'm deathly afraid of being socially rejected, so I prefer to surround myself with people who like the same things I do. I want to feel like I belong. For some reason a lot of people tell me that I'm being a bad person because of that. This sort of criticism, ironically, makes me dislike people who are different from me even more. It's been difficult finding my niche, but because of this forum, I feel as though I'm a lot closer to that than ever before. The weird part is that even though being called a "weasel" was particularly hurtful- since it insinuated that I mindlessly copied and obeyed every negative weaselly trait- it makes me feel more like a weasel than ever before. I'm tempted to draw myself as one. But the difference here is that I don't see myself as one of the weasels who commit crime and hate everyone who's not a weasel. I see myself as an outcast. I most closely resemble this guy: img.photobucket.com/albums/v428/tymime/Weasels/Good%20Neighbor%20Roger/good_neighbor8.png...I still say everyone can learn from this story. It teaches a valuable lesson in prejudice...
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Post by Fisi on Sept 19, 2009 16:49:13 GMT -5
Fatal you are you are a nice person no one should judge you or call you "Weasel.Thats like people saying your such a "Hyena" yeah I like hyenas and but I find that cause it could also mean your cruel like one.
If you don't mind me asking.
What were you and him were talking about that started the problem?
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Post by Fatal hilarity on Sept 19, 2009 18:04:54 GMT -5
I was offering all of my scans for him to post on his blog. When I was saying how I didn't like the way Disney used weasel characters, he told me that he thought the Toon Patrol was annoying. As you can well imagine, I was highly disappointed by this, and expressed how passionate I was about them. For some reason he thought I was trying to make him love the weasels. I wasn't- I was merely stating my opinion. He also believed that I knew nothing of joy, which is a very hurtful and completely unfounded thing to say. My guess is that he mistook my passion, my cynicism, and my insecurity for something cold and deadly serious.
I have no idea why such a thing would make him stop loving Roger. I really don't think it was that- like I said, I think it was because I got angry at him. It seems to me that he was already thinking of jumping off the bridge, but I managed to carelessly bump into him and make him lose his balance and fall off anyway.
But seriously... wouldn't you get angry if someone said such mean things to you? That's why I at least tried to show him that he was being prejudiced, which doesn't have much to do with my opinion of weasels or my Christian faith. Hey, if Roger can learn to trust a weasel, why can't everyone else?
In the end, Bunnyfriend and I may be more or less on opposite sides, but we're really not too different. He's on a quest for fellow Roger Rabbit fans, and he wants to spread the joy Roger has given him. I notice he expresses frustration numerous times about how there aren't that many Roger fans, and how Roger has been neglected. I feel exactly the same way about weasels. I enjoy the community here, and it's comforting to know that there are people who like the same things I do. I've been trying to show how cool weasels can be, and I'm trying to convince more people to like them so that Disney might use them in better ways. See, this is the same principle I go by when it comes to Christianity: if you SHOW people how wonderful something can be, instead of TELLING them that they ought to like it, then they're more likely to be drawn to it. I failed to do this, basically. I was hoping Bunnyfriend would help me do that, until I saw how different our points of view are. Once I knew that he didn't like the weasels, I knew it was pointless trying to use his blog as a means to spread the word about them.
To summarize: Bunnyfriend wants to spread the joy he gets from Roger. I want to spread the joy I get from the weasels. Bunnyfriend doesn't like the weasels, even though there are plenty of weasel fans who like Roger as well. Half of what was required to join forces with him wasn't there. Hey, if I hated Roger, I wouldn't have even considered it!
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Post by Fisi on Sept 19, 2009 18:22:42 GMT -5
That MEANIE.
Your a good person and someone just treats you like that.And when I went to the weviste I was not surprised on how he said about the Toon Patrol.
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Post by Fatal hilarity on Sept 19, 2009 18:40:45 GMT -5
I forgive him for acting the way he did towards me, but I don't forgive him for his hatred of weasels and Christians. I'm proud to say that I'm nearly incapable of hatred, because I've only truly hated someone like once or twice, and I got over it. I feel extreme dislike, but never hate.
...I have to admit, I still don't like him very much, even though I wish him happiness. But that's what we Christians call "turning the other cheek".
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Post by Fisi on Sept 19, 2009 19:13:12 GMT -5
I wish him happiness to.
What were the scans you wanted him to see?
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Post by Fatal hilarity on Sept 19, 2009 19:44:07 GMT -5
The ones linked to in my signature. They're in subfolders.
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Post by jebikun on Sept 20, 2009 21:18:39 GMT -5
Glad it's over...hope everyone is having some peace now. I even blamed myself at some point...yes even when all I was trying to do was share some comic. I thought about taking this whole post off the board but looks like I may not have to...[
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Post by Fatal hilarity on Sept 20, 2009 21:21:29 GMT -5
You can delete the link to his blog in your first post. If he puts up anything weasel related (which I doubt), I won't be linking to his blog just so people can see it. I want it to be shared amongst anyone!
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Post by Fatal hilarity on Sept 28, 2009 17:23:36 GMT -5
toontownantics.blogspot.com/2009/09/very-big-thank-you.htmlFanboy...? Look who's talking, Mr. Ex-Roger-Copycat! I don't go around dressing in zoot suits and speak in a nasal accent, do I? He's no less a fan than I am... I wish he'd get over it already. I've been keeping an eye on him to see if he says anything else nasty about me- I've got a right to defend myself, don't I? I see that he hasn't moved on just yet... believe me, I wouldn't be talking about this if he hadn't brought it up again. I also wish he'd stop calling it an argument. I never actually argued with him, which I've said a million times now- I merely stated an opinion that only happened to be contrary to his. Only I know what my motivation was. I think it's something called freedom of speech. Bunnyfriend, if you're reading this, please just delete any trace of me from the blog so we can forget this ever happened. It shouldn't even be mentioned again. For both our sakes.
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Post by Fisi on Sept 28, 2009 17:33:40 GMT -5
Wow.
That dude got some issues. I agree I wish this would end for everyone sakes.
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Post by kishi on Sept 28, 2009 18:00:54 GMT -5
Hm. Somebody apparently can't let go of the past. Anywho, I don't think I could stomach going back to a place that seems to find it gleeful fun to mock other people's enjoyment just because they don't like the characters. I love the weasels, and I like Roger Rabbit. I even appreciate Eddie Valiant, who most people don't quite know what to make of. It's just kinda crappy the way the person keeps having digs at you. How'd they like it if I set up a weasel lovin' blog and ranted about Roger's Fanboy...or girl as the case may be. I saw what you said Fatal, and it was just the normal type of banter that goes on when someone likes something and is trying to tell someone else just why. I do it to people all the time.
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Post by Fatal hilarity on Sept 28, 2009 19:21:33 GMT -5
He may not know it, but "fanboy" tends to be a derogatory term. It means someone who's obsessed about and possessive of what they like, finding those who don't like it or things dissimilar to what they like to be inferior. Just because I'm an expert on weasels and feel passionate about them doesn't make me like that... Even if I take inspiration from them as a person, encouraging me to feel proud of who I am and rebellious, that doesn't make me a fanboy. If that's what he has a problem with, he has to remember that his fandom has shaped his life even more so than mine. I'm actually quite new to all this- I'm just a fast learner...
I don't frown upon him for liking Roger. I just don't like the way he's been treating me, how he views Christians, or how he seems to be satisfied with weasels being seen as inherently evil. Quite honestly, he seems more aggressive than I am... I mean, he was talking about "knocking 'em dead" and all that. That almost seems like a threat...
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Post by cooper on Sept 28, 2009 19:43:15 GMT -5
Okay, I just read all of this, and I am sick and tired of 'Bunnyfriend' here, so if you will Fatal, send him this message. I'll delete it if it's too 'aggresive':
You, sir, are one of the most immature men I have ever and with great displeasure heard of. You do not have the right to go on and blatently call someone an insult unless you have a good reason. Based on your actions and my friends, it's clear that YOU are the cause of all the drama enforced upon you, not FatalHilarity. I am sickened and disgusted also by how dumb and culturally offending your opinion on Christians are. Christianity has been around for centuries, and you have the gal to insult billions of people and there beliefs? I think not.
I have been a fan of Who Framed Roger Rabbit for a long time, and in one swift moment, you alone have caused me to dislike Roger Rabbit INTENSELY. If all of this is caused by a bunny and a rabbit-loving hack like you, then I wished with all my might that Roger Rabbit never existed.
Your reason for hating the weasels also are completely, in my anger as of now, mentally retarded. They do not exist, yet you treat them like they are present-day nazis. What is your point in attacking someone because of a differant opinion? Do you dislike change? Or are you threatened that some people don't like your bunny as much as other characters? If you attacked my friend based on opinion, then no one in this world will ever be your friend.
I have a right to defend my friend, Mr. Bunnyfriend, and you are an intolerant person. For once in your life, hike up your pants and take responsibilty for actions you have caused. Stop lying to your fans and other people about how much drama is on you. You are acting like a little boy who's lollipop was dropped in mud.
That's it.
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